Tuesday, January 1, 2008

FAMILY


When a man and a woman without legal impediments, bind into one and entered  into a contract of marriage, they are now called universally as  husband and wife.  Even those who lived together and continue cohabiting  each other for a period of five years without the benefit of marriage, such cohabitation considered themselves as husband and wife. 

This union allows the couple to  live in one roof,  share common ancestry, goals, long commitments, mutual love and respect to embrace a new beginning of life enticement and reproduce. The new path that the couple has chosen is to fulfill their dreams, desires, ambitions, and long commitments in order to achieve a happy and harmonious marriage.

In a family, the primary role of the husband is to respond all the  needs of his family,  being a provider. The husband  is oftentimes a decision maker in absence of the mother, however, decision making in a family does not only confine to the father but both. Whereas, the wife, her primary role  is to take care of the children, her husband and the household. 

The father should obligingly  provide all the needs such as  food, shelter, clothing, health, education everything that is beneficial to them.

The head of the family would be reputed as a good father and ideal husband as he faithfully exercise his duties and responsibilities, same with the wife. The purpose of the social union and exchange of vows is to keep the marriage relationship healthy.

During their union, the family consider their humble abode as holy sanctuary.  A sanctuary that full of life. When spirit of harmony dwells within, mutual support, love, respect, faith, honor and fidelity do likewise exist.  How happy a family can be when all  of these essential elements of marriage are attendant in a relationship.

Everyone of us wishes to have a happy and harmonious family.  To achieve such is a great fulfillment to everyone. Of course, nobody wants to severe a healthy and happy relationship but when a fast growing complexities  in a modern world influenced the union itself, and tend to severe the relationship, it would really end to  divorce. Hence, the union vow is failed. 
 
Imagine the  increasing number of divorce and broken homes tallied everyday. This is a noticeable remark that everybody should be aware of.

  So, do not  let the influencing complexities rule above yourself. Always do what is appropriate  and stand for good. 

/The Author

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